Dreams & Fears

Anyone want to see feel dreams or else confused; which is his/ her dream of life OR sill don’t know what is this alien thing; i have a place where Anyone and Everyone can see his or her dreams.

Its simple, just find a place away from noise and distractions, a palace where you must be able to see endless, very far or a place where sky kisses the earth.

Empty your mind. Leave everything outside, no life, no profession, no family, and no nothing. It’s only you and you waiting for the love of your life to appear in front of you. You aim of life, your dream. Then see the entire life as a Zoom-Out. How you were young, what aims you had in your life once is school, college, university, initial professional life and now. But must realize how achievements of one small win never satisfied you. With every coming success you became more desperate and more distracted.

Every milestone seems a mirage, like base of rainbow which could never be found. The biggest achievements; must see then as small stories. Just zoom out of your life. Here just to put a perspective, imagine the scene of movies “Superman”. Once Superman is confused or disturbed, just go out in space and see this whole wide world as one big Globe. Its just a zoom out of life.

Even now, I cannot guarantee that everyone could see it, the dream.

This could help you to see but it cannot produce dreams for you. This can give you glasses no the eyes. This can give you light on path for destination but cannot produce your destination. This is a means to the end not the need itself.

Even if you can see something you cannot be sure that this the one; perhaps your fears are too strong to overcome. And you could only consider fighting your fears and overcoming them is your dream. May be for your but may not be for everyone.

Why this is so, I will elaborate this is next chapter of consciousness. So after all this, you may get this or it may remain a “genetic malfunction”; a born inbuilt feature or function or i call it malfunction.

On the other side, if you feel nothing of your dreams; Remember, You are not the one with this Genetic Malfunction; so relax and enjoy your life as you lacks this software. Now you are the amongst those who are free from this malfunction.

Sometimes I feel that we don’t choose dreams; Dream choose the one they feel like.              

Fears

Now here comes the arch enemy of “Dreams” “They mighty fear” itself. IT IS HERE because IT WAS HERE even once you never imagined your dream. Your Fear is much older, more experienced and most nurtured.

Fear, is not made by us but it is definitely grown by us, owned by us, came even uninvited and never claimed any holiday. Like day and night relationship, it always remain there against dreams and always try to subdued dreams one way or the other.

Dreams and fear; a relationship of Batman & Joker; can’t live with each other neither live without each other, both give meanings to each other and both are fighting to make each other meaningless.

Fears

This word holds a separate definition for every individual human being. Everyone is frightened with something in this world. People are frightened with things of physical mass or reality but extreme fears lies in virtual domain.

Virtually one cannot touch your fears vis-à-vis you can kill a thing you are frightened of. Things frightening you can be killed, subdued and overwhelmed easily less an ‘Ideology of Fears’. Things frightening you can be avoided and even bypassed but fears cannot be.

Fears are living entities with a logic in their hand playing with brain. They are not made overnight.

They are indeed injected in brain slowly by society or luck or good/ bad events. Like a parasite they find their way in a soft comer of our soul and stay theirs incubating further fears. And then more fears and more and more.

Every human being is built up of multiple events in his or her lifetime. For example, if a person is self-centered, greedy towards money and use unfair means for achievement of aims in the society; likely handled by society in the same way once he or she was young or parental influence or once struggling in lifetime.

Small events during hard times place a lasting imprints on the personality of every human. These imprints normally take a shape of a fear. Had no money once struggling and now tend to save money or use massive money to overcome fears or complexes.

Bullied once young always make or become part of powerful gang or bully others; of course with some exceptions. Some of the most striking examples with regards to personalities are that of an eldest brother with many sisters vis-à-vis youngest sister with many elder brothers or eldest son with early death of father or mother, separated or disturbed families and so one and so forth.

Such events imprint some unique qualities in personality throughout their lifetime. So somehow, somewhere, at some point of time and at some corner of life, few incidents shape the fears of one’s life and they become part of soul or personality.

If incase a constant phenomenon for everyone then nothing to worry. But the problem with fears are that ‘they are Dream Killers’. Fears and dreams are so opposing that both cannot live in one single personality or soul. One has to leave, one has to quit and one has to be scarified. Dreams or Fears; one has to die in the cosmos of soul, no matter how much it takes. Like light and darkness, only one can live and thrive.

Dreamers              

Dreams are like lighthouse on the shore of soul. With one ray of dream across the universe of soul and darkness just vanishes away. One small dream, even smallest of all; do not require permission from the eldest or darkest of the dark. It just glows. That is it. Dream glows and fears will simply vanish.

Assume one with no dreams, no light. Even with entire cosmos made of endless jewels and unlimited personal capabilities; you just simply can’t see them, can’t use them, can’t feel them; what to talk of entire universe inside soul.

One just walking or many times, running behind an illusion of success. If you cannot see a dream how can you imagine success or failures of your life time. The loss is not that simple to be calculated. The biggest of all is ‘Time’.

As per Einstein general theory of relativity; time can be bent, twisted and even slowed but can’t be stopped or undone. Every breath we are taking in can’t be repeated; every breath we are giving out can’t be undone.

One life for a lifetime and with only one chance. As per some belief systems, one can have multiple lives but then who knows this is your last life of all. Why to take gamble for life especially if not an action movie and no one is here to say “cut”; “one more try”. Fears are the worst enemies I have felt so far.

Once we grow in our dreams, the fear grows with it. Fear of losing our dreams become even more haunting. Because now fear knows “what you love the most”.

              This is the biggest war, one has to fight. biggest enemy one has overcome. This is the biggest demigod; one has to fight to meet once’s own God.

              How to overcome this? There is no pet solution to this vicious cycle. One battle cry could be “Do not be Ambitious”, other could be “Do not be a control freak”, or “Just go with the flow”.

Fears are fed more once dreams fight with them, bigger it becomes. Dreams do not have time to fight a long war. Dreamers are just focused on final destination and not to the road itself. But still one of the way can be to talk to yourself frequently.

Just once, go out, have a honest talk to yourself and you may find a way around the fear. In any case, fear is not a reality to fight with so face it once and for all and then go circumvent it. But finally leave it for good. Fear is not planning to leave you, it is your turn to return favor.